Wednesday Sep 06, 2023

50. Dating After the Affair

In this 50th episode of "After the Affair," I take a look at the complexities of reentering the dating scene after experiencing betrayal.

It's uncharted territory for many, laden with emotional landmines and haunting questions about trust. But as your host, Luke Shillings, I'll guide you through this daunting yet crucial phase in your healing journey. 

We kick off the episode by exploring how to navigate the world of dating with a fresh perspective on trust, urging you to exercise your "trust muscle" without the burden of past relationships.

We then discuss the often overlooked but vital aspect of timing, outlining how you can recognize when you're truly ready to seek a new partner without rushing the healing process.

Lastly, I equip you with the toolkit you need to identify red flags and establish clear boundaries in your future relationships.

If you're struggling with the question of 'when' and 'how' to start dating after betrayal, this episode is your bootcamp guide to finding love again, but more importantly, rediscovering the love you have for yourself.

Join me in this milestone episode as we unlock the strategies to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and ultimately, prepare you for a fulfilling, respectful relationship in the future.

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