Wednesday Sep 27, 2023

53. Betrayed and Doomed - Spot the Signs and Know When to Walk

In this eye-opening episode of 'After the Affair,' join me Luke Shillings, as I identify the key elements of a Doomed Relationship ... What to look out for and what to do about it, plus the aching question, When is it time to walk away?

I kick off by identifying the red flags that could signal a doomed relationship—warning signs that you can't afford to ignore. 

But understanding the symptoms is just the first step; I also peel back the layers of psychology that drive these problematic behaviors. From personal responsibility to cognitive dissonance, I unpack the mental and emotional mechanisms that can lead to a relationship’s downfall. 

The episode doesn't stop at identification and understanding; it offers actionable steps to take when faced with these red flags. Whether that involves professional help or personal reflection, you'll come away with concrete advice for navigating troubled waters.

And finally, I tackle the heart-wrenching question: When is it time to walk away?

Not all relationships can or should be saved. Sometimes, the most loving act is to let go. Learn how to recognise when that time has come, and what steps to take if it has.

Don't miss this comprehensive guide to recognising, understanding, and addressing the signs of a relationship in jeopardy.

If you're in a relationship or know someone who is, this episode is an essential listen.

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