After the Affair

18. Road to Forgiveness

The road to forgiveness is a challenging journey, but it is one well worth taking.  There are many misconceptions that say we shouldn't let them off the hook, they should pay for their betrayal, and you should seek revenge at the earliest opportunity.In this episode, I'll look at what forgiveness is, common misconceptions, why you should forgive, learn if you are ready to forgive, and finally ... how to forgive.
 
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17. It’s all Lies

Lies form a very real part of the world we live in. From the innocent white lies we tell our children, to the scandals in government, and everything in between.
Do lies serve a real purpose? How do you want to think about the lies you have told?
Join me in this week's episode to explore a variety of examples, get under the skin of why we lie and what we can do about it going forward.
Enjoy!
 
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16. Best way to Heal

There are lots of ways people choose or recommend as the way to heal from betrayal but that raises a question ... Is there a 'Best way to heal' from infidelity? Listen to find out.
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15.The Motivational Triad

Happy New Year! Let's make 2023 the turning point in your recovery.
 
Today's episode is all about the Motivational Triad. This is the human need to;
 
- Seek pleasure
- Avoid pain
- Expend the least energy
 
This shows up in our lives daily and it makes perfect sense from an evolutionary perspective, but in today's world where food and material items are in abundance ... it often leads us to behave in ways that no longer serve us.
Listen to learn more!
 
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14. Put it to Work

Come on, admit it. We are all guilty for consuming a great piece of advice, reading and inspirational quote in a magazine or learning that new technique on a webinar but, how often do you actively put that new found knowledge into practice.
 
I know from experience how easy it is to passively consume information, but then realise that nothing is changing for me because I haven't implemented any of it! 
This week is all about reflecting back on some of the key takeaways from the first 13 episodes.
Choose one episode or lesson, and intentionally put it into practice before the end of 2022. Let's set you and your relationships up for 2023 like it's had a kick up the "£$*!Make the most of this holiday period spend as much time with the people most important to you in your lives.
 
You've got this!
 
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13. Know Your Boundaries

What boundaries do you have in your relationships? Have you ever intentionally set a boundary? What is expected of other people who infringe on your emotional boundaries?Find out the answers to these questions and many more in today's episode.
 
I love to hear all of your questions that come to mind when you are listening to the episodes, let me know what comes up for you. Leave a comment, send an email or reach out on social media.Website: www.lifecoachluke.com
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12. The Rulebook

Following on from last weeks episode I explore the list of rules that we have for our partners. How they are something that we don't even notice yet they dictate our expectations and ultimately our feelings if left unchecked.In addition, to sign up for the upcoming Heal for Holidays workshop which will be held on Tuesday 13th December 2022 at 9am CT and 3pm UK time, click >>here!

11. Rose Tinted Glassed or Not

We all see the world through a different lens. Sometimes it's easy to use the analogy of Rose-Tinted Glasses where you only see the positives, this would be great but is often not always the case!
 
This episode, along with next week's episode will look at the lists we have in our mind that act like a filter ... not dissimilar to Rose-Tinted Glasses. Enjoy!
 
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10. When Things Seemed Fine

For episode 10, we're doing something a little different. 
 
Whatever it is that you are going through, whatever stage of recovery you are at, there is always someone else out there who is experiencing something similar. Simply becoming aware of this, might just make you feel a little less alone on this journey.
 
Today I'm having a very open conversation with Mike who experienced infidelity back in 2006.
 
If you would like to share your story on a future episode, then send me an email with a brief summary of your situation and we can talk.
 
Become a future podcast guest - Email: luke.shillings@gmail.com
 
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9. Rebuild Trust

Such a common question after infidelity, how do I rebuild trust? How can I ever trust again?I could talk about this subject for hours but I've kept it to around 20 minutes so it will be manageable and accessible to all.
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